A book about men - for men and the women who love them

From urges to infidelity, and loneliness to love at first sight, Confessions of 400 Men exposes men's innermost thoughts and feelings. Filled with humor, insight, and even a bit of soul searching, this book chronicles one woman's quest to help women, and men, better understand the men in their lives.

Through her conversations with over 400 men of all ages and backgrounds, Heidi Doheny Jay discovered the untold side of the relationship story - his side. Confessions of 400 Men, a book about men for men and the women who love them, explores what men have to say about life, relationships, love and sex when one woman cared enough to ask.

What Are People Saying About Confessions?

"I wanted to thank you for writing your book. I never read books but I had a friend say that I should read yours and he has never asked me to do anything ever since I met him in the early 90s and so I thought fine, I'll look at it. 

I couldn't put it down.

I finished it in 3 days which is a huge accomplishment considering I am a recent Widow who home schools her two children and we have 5 animals. I learned so much and your book actually answered questions that I had about my own husband but he died before I could get real answers from him.

Again, thank you for the book. I will be buying a few copies for some friends that I know need your information too."

-Meryl H. 

Who am I?

I'm an author, blogger and published columnist who explores the mysteries of life, relationships and what makes men and women tick.

I have a penchant for interviewing and questioning everyone about their choices in life, love and what truly makes them happy.

I've worked with hundreds of clients helping them to better understand themselves and ultimately their relationships so they may find true, sustaining happiness.

I'm originally from the Philadelphia, PA area and discovered my love of writing while I was living in upstate NY. I have a degree in Psychology and hold a Master’s degree from Syracuse University.

I'm currently based out of Philadelphia, PA and when I'm not writing, I enjoy taking ballet class, staying healthy, and adoring Lola Falana, my rescued Blue Nose Pit bull.